3 thoughts on “Why is the phenomenon of heavy men and women so serious”
Janie
It's speechless, your parents are too petting your brother. Your brother may be a lazy person, and you are more sensible. Your parents still treat your brother as a child who is never growing. This causes your parents to think that your brother is a ‘weak’ person, and you are a ‘strong’ person, and they are all their children. They want you to balance, so when they all consider your brother first. As for you, they think you are growing up. If you are sensible, you should let your brother. In this way, many of them have ignored your feelings, and they have put you at the same height as them and they suddenly overlap. You are also your child. The situation like you in life, but most of them are not important for men and women but have long -term doting for the youngest children. When your brother and sister are born, the parent's love for you mostly goes to your brother and sister. For you, they will look at you with a "elder brother like father". As long as you have a little bit of your brother and sister, Just criticize you and educate you to scold you or something, and at this time they ignore their ideological education for their younger and sisters, which leads to the no responsibility of the younger brothers and sisters. Calling is unfair ......... This these are common problems of older generations. There are very few enlightened parents. Like your situation, you can make three chapters of your parents and brothers. When will the regulations return? Find a job for your brother to give him a little pressure to give him some pressure, cultivate his sense of responsibility and independence, and let him suffer a little frustration, and he will slowly understand. Man you don't be afraid of your parents and others say you, as the saying goes, your brothers also settle accounts. If you fight against your parents, it is not possible to do it, and their thoughts are ingrained, but it is not possible to follow their meaning. I think no man will be so on. Although men may not care about in the short term , But in the long run, there will always be cracks between husband and wife, and how many divorce starts from this. (I am deeply appreciated) It is still good, I have a headache for sister, I have no one in my eyes, no elders, pride and arrogant, I used to be with me when I was in school. Heaven is called a male light and girl. Now my parents can't control it. Fortunately, a girl is always going to marry. If a boy, I have a headache as you. (The above is my personal point) Anyway, you can only rely on yourself to rely on your parents. No one can hurt! Intersection Intersection Intersection Intersection
It is really a common phenomenon! Don't look at the current society shouting equality between men and women. In fact, inheritance in asset inheritance is still biased in men. Your father's words are really chilling, and you are a bit overwhelming about your brother's spoils, but it is unfair to you. "The marriage of a daughter hasn't earned a penny (it is more than 20 years in vain)" is very sad. "My brother is married, my parents want to give my brother 100,000." It was angry. It can be seen that your parents have reached the point where your brother has reached the point, making me feel a bit unknown! Even if you love him, even if the house is given to him, even if he helps him to bring his children, why should he earn 100,000? Such a family turn around and serve him? Is this good to him? Can you help him for a while, can you help him? Well, the old man is also old, and many ideas are difficult to change. Since everyone is an adult, no one is the responsibility. I think this is a well -deserved approach under the condition that my life can be met. The people should learn to stand on their own and strengthen themselves.
Your dad is too much, that is, it is not so outrageous that the male and young women do not have to be so outrageous The quarrel is not your fault. I am about to get married. Although I do n’t have any money at home, my parents do n’t have less. I do n’t have much to us. Compared to me, I am more lucky than you.
It's speechless, your parents are too petting your brother. Your brother may be a lazy person, and you are more sensible. Your parents still treat your brother as a child who is never growing. This causes your parents to think that your brother is a ‘weak’ person, and you are a ‘strong’ person, and they are all their children. They want you to balance, so when they all consider your brother first. As for you, they think you are growing up. If you are sensible, you should let your brother. In this way, many of them have ignored your feelings, and they have put you at the same height as them and they suddenly overlap. You are also your child.
The situation like you in life, but most of them are not important for men and women but have long -term doting for the youngest children. When your brother and sister are born, the parent's love for you mostly goes to your brother and sister. For you, they will look at you with a "elder brother like father". As long as you have a little bit of your brother and sister, Just criticize you and educate you to scold you or something, and at this time they ignore their ideological education for their younger and sisters, which leads to the no responsibility of the younger brothers and sisters. Calling is unfair .........
This these are common problems of older generations. There are very few enlightened parents. Like your situation, you can make three chapters of your parents and brothers. When will the regulations return? Find a job for your brother to give him a little pressure to give him some pressure, cultivate his sense of responsibility and independence, and let him suffer a little frustration, and he will slowly understand.
Man you don't be afraid of your parents and others say you, as the saying goes, your brothers also settle accounts. If you fight against your parents, it is not possible to do it, and their thoughts are ingrained, but it is not possible to follow their meaning. I think no man will be so on. Although men may not care about in the short term , But in the long run, there will always be cracks between husband and wife, and how many divorce starts from this. (I am deeply appreciated)
It is still good, I have a headache for sister, I have no one in my eyes, no elders, pride and arrogant, I used to be with me when I was in school. Heaven is called a male light and girl. Now my parents can't control it. Fortunately, a girl is always going to marry. If a boy, I have a headache as you. (The above is my personal point)
Anyway, you can only rely on yourself to rely on your parents. No one can hurt! Intersection Intersection Intersection Intersection
It is really a common phenomenon! Don't look at the current society shouting equality between men and women. In fact, inheritance in asset inheritance is still biased in men. Your father's words are really chilling, and you are a bit overwhelming about your brother's spoils, but it is unfair to you.
"The marriage of a daughter hasn't earned a penny (it is more than 20 years in vain)" is very sad. "My brother is married, my parents want to give my brother 100,000." It was angry. It can be seen that your parents have reached the point where your brother has reached the point, making me feel a bit unknown! Even if you love him, even if the house is given to him, even if he helps him to bring his children, why should he earn 100,000? Such a family turn around and serve him? Is this good to him? Can you help him for a while, can you help him?
Well, the old man is also old, and many ideas are difficult to change. Since everyone is an adult, no one is the responsibility. I think this is a well -deserved approach under the condition that my life can be met.
The people should learn to stand on their own and strengthen themselves.
Your dad is too much, that is, it is not so outrageous that the male and young women do not have to be so outrageous
The quarrel is not your fault. I am about to get married. Although I do n’t have any money at home, my parents do n’t have less. I do n’t have much to us. Compared to me, I am more lucky than you.